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Not Just About Looks!

I feel that most people, have a problem about the way they look. Also think to much of how people think about them. Quality women like charming, confident, smart men. If your going for a one night stand it could be different but with the ''GAME'' to do so it will be easy enough no matter who you are.

''The art of attracting people (especially beatifual women), consists of 10% projection of success, 10% appearance, 10% intelligence, and 70% charm.'' says David Burton

''Let me introduce you to my good friend David Burton. He's the man who is able to grab the attention of every person in a crowded room simply with the tone of his voice, his stance, and his smile. David is the type of person who'll find any job he wants; get any woman he desires; and attract every successful person around him. He does so by exerting confidence, positive energy, and a successful image.

David is not the best looking guy. In fact, he's the guy that everyone asks, What does she see in him? But once they get to know David, they are quickly seduced, and captivated by his charisma.

My curiosity got the best of me, so finally I asked David how he does it. How does he captivate so many people? David smiled very smoothly at me and said: "It's all about charm." Quote from Andre Cross

Women and Men are attracted alot by charm, the way of them flirting there voice and alot more things that aren't looks.

Personally, I was born with the charm that I have and since I was very young I have always been charming up every lady. Even ones 3 times my age, truth is a women likes to be made feel good about her self. Which is why male escorts exist of course some of them are just, in it for sex but alot of them is for other reasons.

''Some people are born with the gift of natural charm. Others just lack the skill, or never learned the proper techniques, which could be picked up with daily social communication.'' By Andre Cross, which I totally agree on.

This is an extract yet again from Andre Cross:
''Practice your charm
Charm is simply the art of letting someone know that you feel good about them, without asking anything from them in return. The following checklist should help you accomplish your goals, and become truly attractive:

1. Eye contact is charm's ally. Never forget to look into someone's eyes when speaking to them.

2. Being charming includes complimenting them. What you should compliment is relatively easy to do; just figure out what would it take to make you feel grateful, and do the same to others.

The difference between charm and flattery is that flattery has an agenda. I'll flatter you so that you'll give me what I want. Charm is a way of being, rather than a means to achieve something.

3. Charm has to be sincere. It is most powerful when you believe what you're saying.

4. Charm is done pleasantly and lightly.

5. The secret to charm is to be selfless. You should not ask for anything in return, not even feedback.

6. Charm isn't sexual; it's simply warmth.

7. Charm means exerting confidence, not cockiness.

8. Charm, in its simplest form, just says, You are terrific, thank you for letting me bask in your glow.

For a person not to come off as too rehearsed and insincere, one needs to practice. So where do you start? Any place. Practice on your mother, sister, dog, neighbor, dad, your boss, teacher, friends, or even the stranger at the street corner.

You will even be amazed at how charming people will be in return. Don't forget to smile, it'll make you look alive.

In short, charm is like a butterfly's touch on a rose petal. The key is to not overdo it. Charm is fun, and a potentially very profitable tool in interpersonal relationships. It's crucial in dating, so simply practice and enjoy!''

Charm NOT ass kissing...
I find alot of people when coming to ''charming'' kiss alot of ass for example on a first meet.
''Arh your so fit'' a woman will appreciate that but wont actually do much good for you depending on the woman also (a skank yup it will work probly)

If you over do your complumenting the lady will, take that she is your weakness and could use it to her advantage later. If the girl is your girlfriend already it's ok to charm as much as you want but dont over do it of course.

By Andre Cross and Me

The Art of Flirting

Flirting is a way of signalling attraction without commitment, a no-strings-attached way of having fun with other people without any emotional fallout. At school we are taught maths and English but not important communication skills that are vital to success in later life. Indeed it seems to me that many people are largely unaware of many of the subtle signals they are sending and receiving. One of the most important of these is the skill of flirting. Flirting is not just about sending sexual signals; everyone flirts, salespeople do it, flirting is another name for prospecting.

Statistically the biggest phobia in the western world and the one that I get asked to fix a lot is the fear of public speaking. However, the fear of having a conversation with a stranger, and worse than that, being rejected by that person is one that most people can identify with, because we all fear rejection. Even more peculiar is the notion that a lot of people nowadays can feel so awkward talking to someone but somehow are quite comfortable jumping into bed with them. Flirting is supposed to be fun. It's about being playful and should be accompanied by a good dose of humour.



People have forgotten how much fun the flirting part is, and many people have not even taken the time or trouble to master this skill, and make no mistake, flirting is a learned skill. Little girls often learn it from their mothers or elder sisters, cousins or friends. However if you weren't lucky enough to be surrounded by flirts below is a simple easy to follow plan to the top ten techniques of flirting that anyone can follow. Of course before you start to practise your flirting, you have to find someone to flirt with and that is a whole skill in itself.

In simple terms, if you want to flirt with someone, all you need to do is send a signal of interest. If you then receive a signal of interest back, withdraw and invite that person to become closer.


How to meet people to flirt with
You can meet people anywhere there are people. The key is to get from being a stranger, to being an acquaintance and finally a friend. If you are trying to meet somebody in a coffee shop, the supermarket, or a bar the basic rule is the same. Let the other person know that you are interested in getting to know them. Generally speaking, when people see somebody they are attracted to, tend to ignore them and look anywhere but at them. This is not going to get you very far. The other person will interpret you ignoring them as disinterest.

The reason people do this is their innate fear of rejection. This is one of those fears that is grossly exaggerated in people's imagination and can usually be dispelled by applying a bit of reality and common sense.

People are not as frightening as we think. Most people will not mind being approached, they will find it flattering, and even if they are not interested in taking the approach further, will generally be polite and good humoured about it. If you are somewhere and see somebody you like the look of, make eye contact, if they look back, try smiling, and if that seems welcome, simply introduce yourself. "Hi my name is ." works well on most people. Or a simple "hello" with a smile. Smiles tend to elicit smiles. Then simply offer a little information about yourself rather than firing questions at the other person. The more you tell the person about you the less of a stranger you are to them, and by showing a little interest in their life and situation you are inadvertently flattering them which will make them feel good rather than threatened.

One word of advice, it's best not to ask them what they do. Otherwise you will simply get the work side of them, instead ask them what they like to do after work, or what they do to have fun. Make sure you listen to them, remember what they say and try and repeat it back. This will make them feel interesting and more relaxed.

1. Get in the mood
   Your mood or state is all important when you set out to flirt. Everybody should practise generating good feelings regularly just because you can. You need to make sure that you feel confident as that will inspire confidence in the other person. When you feel good about yourself you will make the other person feel good too and you will seem attractive as a result. It is easy to put yourself into a confident state before you go out using this simple technique. However, you don't have to be slick, authenticity is a far more desirable quality. In fact may just be that the most attractive thing you can offer that person is your willingness to be a little embarrassed.


2. Compliments
   Compliments are great. The wonderful thing about them is that everyone loves receiving them, they make you feel good and you can never be annoyed with the person offering you one. You can compliment everyone you meet, just for practise. From the guy serving you in a restaurant, to your boss, it will go a long way to making people more attracted to you without realising why. If you are unconsciously associated in somebody's mind to their feeling good about themselves they will absolutely love being around you and will like you more as a result.
   
   Pay somebody a compliment. It makes them feel good and it will make you feel good. The more relaxed you become about it the better. Then when you meet somebody you like it will be more natural and easy to talk, to be attentive and to flatter them. This will pay off amazingly. You will get a lot more compliments back as well which is always a lovely boost. They will make you feel more confident and confidence is the most attractive quality to attract a mate.


3. Space Invasion
   One of the most basic and easiest ways to create closeness is to break into the other person's space. This has to be done very carefully without getting in the other person's face instead of space! The rule is very simple, once you have connected with someone it's very powerful to back away slightly sending them the invitation to enter your intimate space. Keep watching for how the other person reacts to small forays into their space, with your hands or leaning in with your body. Test their space boundaries using small moves to calibrate their reactions. If you are paying attention it's easy to detect if they are welcoming to your advances or unwelcoming, in which case BACK OFF.


4. Never Use Chat Up Lines
   Don't use lines because quite simply they never work. If you use a clever, funny line on someone it really doesn't have a lot of potential to go any further than that. The recipient will rarely have anything to say back, there is no come back to a line other than a groan or a grimace. It also has overtones of thinking that they say that to everyone and that their motives are purely sexual. Shyness, rather than cockiness, tends to work much better at creating closeness and forming a bond. It's far better to convey a genuine sentiment of what is happening at the time than some clever one liner.


5. Mirroring
   We are always fundamentally attracted to people that we perceive as similar to us. We unconsciously seek out people who share similar backgrounds, looks, tastes and personalities. Research has shown that the largest part of the meaning of our communication is conveyed through body language. When you use the mirroring technique, that is a simple copying of some their movements, speaking at the same pace and volume as another you will automatically be creating a bond of similarity between you and the other person at the unconscious level. They will feel more at ease with you, causing the to think 'this person is like me, I can trust them'. Try not to be obvious about this, echoing rather than exactly copying their posture and gestures, if they become consciously aware you are mirroring them it may cause offence.


6. Whisper
   There is quite simply nothing sexier and more likely to create intimacy than whispering. Plus it really doesn't matter what you whisper. It has so many advantages - you have to lean in very close to do it and it has such sexy overtones but without being threatening. Of course it works best in a crowded place as there is a ready made excuse for doing it. It can create instant closeness if you whisper something conspiratorial to someone you don't know. Try walking up to someone that you like the look of at a party and whisper to them that you need saving from another guest. The other person gets to be your instant hero, you are bonded together against a common foe. It's funny but also has the added benefit of making you look desirable.


7. Share
   Sharing anything can quickly imply intimacy. Sharing a laugh, a joke, a conversation can all be made to feel personal and be the perfect opportunity for flirting. However, if you can get to a place where you are sharing food or drink you are home and dry. It is very flirtatious to offer somebody food or to taste your cocktail. This obviously works best at a party or dinner. It is not particulary appropriate to offer a stranger sitting near you in starbucks a taste of your latte! Use your common sense with this one. It is a very good gauge of how receptive the other person is to you by how far they are prepared to go.


8. Eye Contact
   This is a huge part of flirting. So much can be communicated to another person through your eyes and how many times you meet their gaze, and where your eyes go to after you make eye contact.


9. Suggestion
   Everybody is suggestible to some degree. The American hypnotist Ross Jefferies who teaches the contraversial art of 'Speed Seduction' makes the observation that far too many people attempt to impress another by trying to show how clever they are or how much they have. He uses a very simple model; Get the other person's attention then drive them in to a state of arousal. This particular approach does take some skill and practice. His patter goes something like: "Let me ask you question. Have you ever been totally fascinated with someone? Like maybe as you were there, looking at him, and you started to LISTEN CAREFULLY, it was like his voice just seemed to wrap itself around you, and the rest of your environment just disappeared, and your entire world, everything you saw, became what was right in front of you? And anything he described, you found that you could just PICTURE IT CLEARLY? So you know, if he were talk about a romantic walk, on a moonlit beach, with your perfect partner, you could SEE YOURSELF there with him, just enjoying what that would be like?"
   
   However, if we make the comparison of flirting to selling it becomes a lot clearer. Whatever anyone is selling, be it houses, cars or insurance, they are ultimately selling good feelings. When you are selling yourself to someone else jut ask yourself 'What does this person need to hear to feel good about me' Very often it's just that you are natural and spontaneous.
   
   Obviously some more than others but it is fair to say that millions would not be spent on advertising products each year if people weren't open to suggestion. I have made a career out of it. You can use people's suggestibility to suggest you are attractive and desirable. And they will often believe you, if you put the case subtly enough and often enough. A few examples of suggestions:
   
10. Building A Bridge
    An old technique that spies are taught when wishing to establish rapport is to imagine building a bridge of light between yourself and the other person. Usually it's best to start it in you heart and extend it to their heart. I know this sounds a little strange, but many people report that it works.


11. Clothes
    Your clothes convey a non-verbal message. Remember sexual clothes may create arousal, but that does not equal attraction. This is one of those areas where you might want to ask a friend for feed back. Usually it's best to choose a friend of the same sex you wish to attract.


12. Body Language
    There's so much that can be said about body language, however, in general it's usually best to be at 45degrees to the other person so that you are presenting yourself, but you are also holding something back. Try to align your eyes and mouth to the other persons. A simple handshake can say a lot, for example research has shown that the optimum handshake lasts for 5 seconds, a dry palm is essential and eye contact and slight smile all help to create a positive impression. In terms of body language for a woman. Once you have initiated conversation the classic signs that most men will respond to and recognise as gestures of attraction are hair tossing and laughing. The flirtatious laugh is different to a normal laugh in that it is slightly exaggerated with the head thrown further back to expose the neck. However, when you are just talking, it is just as effective to tilt your head back slightly and draw attention to your neck by running two fingers down it from below the chin towards the cleavage. This is incredibly provocative and much less obvious.

Finally don't give up if you don't get immediate results. As Thomas Watson the founder of IBM said ' If you want to increase you success rate you have to be prepared to increase your failure rate.

Thanks to, Paul Mckenna.

About chat up lines, depending on the so called lines you use. Funny ones where you and the person you are ''flirting'' with will most times work unless the female is a horrible ''b*tch'' which in that case you wouldnt want that anyway.

The way to flirt in the art of it is to know your ''enemy'' you must know how when and where to strike.

Top Flirting Gestures

1) Eyebrow Flash: An exaggerated raising of both eyebrows for a couple of seconds, followed by a rapid lowering to normal position. The eyebrow flash is often combined with a smile and some eye contact.

2) Lip Lick: This is a very common flirting technique. Some people use a single-lip lick, wetting only their upper or lower lip, while others run their tongue around the entire lip area.

3) Short Darting Glance:
These glances usually come in bouts, with an average of three glances per episode.

4) Hair Flip: Simply pushing one's fingers through the hair, in one movement or in a stroking motion, can mean business.

5) Coy Smile:
A sort of half-smile, showing little if any tooth, combined with a downward gaze or very brief eye contact.

6) Whisper: When someone leans over and speaks into a friend's ear while looking at you, it's a sure sign.

7) Primp: A person who pats or smooths his or her clothing, even if there's no need, can well be trying to get your attention.

8) Skirt Hike: When a woman pulls up her hem to expose a little more leg, she's definitely interested.

9) Object Caress: Fondling keys, sliding hands up and down a glass, playing with toys or other things on the table or bar are all attention-getters.

10) Solitary Dance: When while seated, a person moves in time to the music while looking your way, it's time for you to get up and ask for a dance.

While Talking:

1) Shoe Point: Don't really know how to describe this but when they leave the bottom part of there foot out of the shoe so the point of the foot is on the top of the shoe. This probly means you are getting laid tonight.

2) Lip Bite: Simular to the lip lick but when they bite there bottom lip.

There's different things for different occasions which I will bring up later on. Also rember any of these can be used at anytime not just while talking or when not together. Altough to me and many of you these might seem pointless I bet there's alot of you who didn't see it in that way. Also remeber on the OUTSIDE OF THE BOX its always easier to see who is flirting with you. Meaning for example a friend is more likey to notice it than yourself, because you might not feel so confident about yourself...

By Deb Levine And Me

Music: Best of the not so well known...
I bring you two good tracks from unknown artists from the rap scene...

Bang ft. Lil Low - Drop it down
Play Lo-Fi Play Hi-Fi
This track, is hard hitting party pumping stuff, done on the cheapest stuff possible. Proves that you dont need a million doller studio to make something good.

DJ BEEF - Shake Dat Laffy Taffy
Play Lo-Fi Play Hi-Fi
In the club underground check it out...

Dirty B - What U Doin
Play Lo-Fi Play Hi-Fi
This is hot hot hot I am telling you check it out.

You may not like any of these tracks but that all depends on your style of music. Also remeber no style is the correct one. Depending on the occasion it might be though.

(Opps none of these links are working ill fix them when I can)

Can you get over your past?

September is Self-Improvement Month, and for those us on the hunt for love, perhaps the most self-improving thing we can do is get rid of some baggage. Yup, we all carry some emotional baggage with us. As for its size and shape, it might be a slim wallet, a veritable steamer trunk or something in between. But it’s there—the remnants and wreckage of your past that you just can’t get rid of.

You may think you’ve got it whittled down to a stylish roll-aboard or perhaps a designer backpack, but how does that jibe with reality? If you’re not getting what you want from your relationships, you might have more baggage than you think. Take this fun quiz to find out if your baggage is taking up so much space in your life that there’s no room for love.

1. Which term best describes your emotional baggage:
-Rabbits. I swear there’s more of it every day. (Score = -1)
-Heinous mold. I can’t seem to get rid of it. (Score = 1)
-A bad check. It bounces back into my life when I can least afford to deal with it. (Score = 2)
-My annual performance review. It doesn’t crop up often, but it’s still inconvenient. (Score = 3)
-My shadow. It’s there all the time, but it doesn’t bother me much. (Score = 4)

2. A co-worker wants to set you up. You respond:
-“Why bother? I’m still smarting from my last break-up.” (Score = -1)
-“I’m thinking of swearing off dating, actually…” (Score = -1)
-“Don’t. It’ll end up just like every other date I’ve been on—badly.” (Score = 1)
-“No thanks; I’m not ready to date again just yet.” (Score = 2)
-“Sure, if you think you know someone who’s right for me.” (Score = 3)
-“Terrific. I like expanding my social network, even if the romance thing doesn’t work out.” (Score = 4)

3. Let’s say you finally wanted to ditch your baggage and start fresh. The baggage you would need to clear out of your life first would fill which of the following:
-An airplane hangar. (Score = -1)
-An attic or basement (and maybe a shed). (Score = 1)
-An extra-large storage unit. (Score = 2)
-A trunk or foot locker. (Score = 3)
-A briefcase or purse. (Score = 4)

4. When you start a new relationship, you:
-Why start one? They never last. (Score = -1)
-Worry; you know you may well get hurt. (Score = 1)
-Feel somewhat hopeful; you accept that unsuccessful relationships are part of the journey on the road to finding true love. (Score = 2)
-Optimistic; this could be the start of a really great romance. (Score = 3)
-Thrilled; you’re counting on this being The One. (Score = 4)

5. Which John Cusack movie title best describes you:
-Better Off Dead – you’re feeling as if you’d rather die than date again. (Score = -1)
-Floundering – you’d like a relationship, but you don’t want to get hurt again. (Score = 1)
-Hot Pursuit – you’re trying hard to find love. Maybe a little too hard. (Score = 2)
-Must Love Dogs - you’re seeking your mate with a good idea of what you need in a partner… and what won’t work for you. (Score = 3)
-America’s Sweethearts – you’ve cleared out your baggage and are ready to find your romantic lead. (Score = 4)

Less than 0: You’ve got so much baggage, there’s hardly room for you—much less anyone else. Start cleaning out your emotional attic by chatting with a professional or a member of the clergy to explore your issues and start dealing with them.

0-5: Take a page from that Clean Sweep show and clear out some emotional space. Investigate the problems that are holding you back from love and then take concrete steps to work through them.

6-10: Skycap! You’re going to have to check a few bags. But with a little more effort (be it short-term therapy or working through a self-help book), you could rid yourself of the extra weight and begin the serious search for love.

11-15: There’s still some junk lying around, but you’re in pretty good shape. Why not have an emotional yard sale (a “let’s complain” session with your pals) to ditch the last of it?

16-20: You’ve unloaded a lot of your emotional flotsam and jetsam, so there’s plenty of room for love in your life. Get out there to some parties, post an online profile and make a great relationship happen.

By Margot Carmichael Lester

Well personally not, agreeing with everything on this exam test can clearly be seen it is wrote by a woman, which is no problem. But I can say that it may help you see how obbessed you are with your last lady or man...

Personally, I got this in because of one of my friends who can't seem to get over this girl. Which she dumped him more than a year ago. Like he is blind, shes good looking and stuff but she's not even for him. In my words, and feel free to quote this: If you aint together it wasnt ment to be if it wasnt ment to be theres no point crying about it...

So in other words, its never worth crying about it. But sometimes of course its good to cry, but not for ever.

People after having a hard break, seem to keep obessing on the person, which isn't good. You should, just move on if you want to have a friendship with your ex thats fine. Just don't go telling him or her how much you miss them.

99.9% of the time, when people get back together after breaking up it will never be the same and it won't work. So dont waste your time.

Also almost forgetting, never put yourself down, fact is there is loads of women or men out there for you...

Not Enuff Attention...
Last night I went out at night to some small club anyways of course I got the whole club started, but thats not that point. Was noticing some guys (wanna b playaz) and some nice looking girls. Like the girls was asking for them but they giving no attention just I don't get it. I could tell they liked the girls, and they was just dancing on there own while these guys where just sitting down. Now a guy shouldent be all over the chick, but least be up and talking doing some moves. A girl apriciates a guy with confidence, even if you dance funny if you make it so they know you do and you know, they will find it humorus and probly in most cases not even care.

On there own...
When you see an attrative looking lady don't leave her on her own, damn! Go and talk to her, no cheesy chat up lines unless you make them as a joke. Don't be like ''damn girl you fine''

Well anyways I got to roll... There is some spelling mistakes here since I do not have word on this pc...

How to treat a girl!
Everyone always say that girls want to be treated like princesses, believe or not this is wrong in some senses! When most guys hear this the first thing they think of is present! Material things! That most girls just don’t want! You can buy us! You need to work for it. By arranging things, being yourself and spending time with her. Yeah most girls do like to be brought things but only when it is an occasion, her birthday, valentines day, christmas or anniversaries. Not every couple of days just to prove that you like her. You can't prove it with presents and material things. Prove it other ways! Be inventive, in more than one way.
Offer to walk her home, even if she says no, always offer! It makes her feel safe, most girls don't like to walk home in the dark on their own. If she gets cold put your arm round her and warm her up by that and then if that doesn’t work offer her your jacket!
If you are invited round her house to meet the parents don't get shy about it, if she has invited you so thinks your ready to meet them, in which case she thinks they will like you or at least respect the fact that she does. So just be yourself around them, talk to them, be polite and be ready for anything.

And always talk to her like a person! Not a toy, a baby or an animal of some kind. Include her in the things you like and let her include you in the things she likes.

By Zoe 17

Well I aint going to comment on this right now because, I have no time but I will soon… no worries… Also seems like this is getting dominated by the opposite sex and I don’t want that, although its about them but they will fill your heads with most bullsh*t and some goodsh*t. This seems to be filled with a ladys, dream but her eyes closed don’t worry peeps I will show you the way… Haha

Sick of hearing 'Let’s just be friends'?

««From me personally never needed stuff like this but eh it will help you (or at least should do)»»

Few phrases can shred a guy's ego faster than "Let's just be friends." Tired of being the guy all women think is a great catch, but just not the right guy for them? Try these women-approved tips on your next date to keep romance percolating:

Take control. Trying to be the nice guy all the time by letting her choose what to do and where to go may seem sweet, "but it gives a girl a sense that you lack the knack to step up to the plate and sometimes take the lead," says Leeanne Incalcaterra from Bethlehem, PA. Even women with strong personalities like it when a guy knows what he wants to do. Plus, fighting about what to do next is something she's used to doing with her family and friends—so it instantly makes her shift you into those categories. Some specifics: Offer to make her dinner, plan a wine tasting or take her to see a band you think she'd like.

Meet her only when the sun drops. What time of the day you see a woman immediately sets the tone for your relationship. Trying a more casual approach — a nice lunch date or Saturday A.M. run — may feel like a clever way to ease your way into her heart, but too many day dates only increase your chances of being her buddy. "Most girls save the daytime for their likes and the nighttime for their loves; we just naturally think and feel more romantically later in the evening," says Beth Musselman from Hoboken, NJ. Don't let that happen to you! Think cocktails, jazz clubs, and 8 P.M. poetry readings if you want to win her over.

Be her opposite. Having tons in common with a woman may make her feel you're simpatico, but having too much in common is another sure way to get viewed as a friend. "Women want a guy that completes them—yet challenges them at the same time," says June Newland from Vero Beach, FL. To pull that off, think of what trait defines who you're with, then tap into being slightly the opposite. "If she's shy, try to come off more bold and outspoken. If she's somewhat high-strung, act very laid-back. If she's cerebral, be artistic," June recommends. Often, it's pals who share exactly the same interests and vibe... and lovers who learn new things from one another.

Let your body speak for you. Body language can communicate that you have romance, not pal-hood on your brain, says Patti Wood, author of Success Signals. Angle your body toward hers and point your feet and hands in her direction (to show you're deeply focused on her), and when you talk, look straight in her eyes for at least 4-5 seconds every few minutes. Finally, as she talks, let your eyes linger on her mouth every few minutes—it subtly signals that you're thinking about kissing her, which may well make her think about kissing you.

Don't be her shrink. Giving her advice may seem like a nice way to get to know a woman better, but constantly playing counselor is a major friend move. It casts you in the role of advisor, not suitor. "If a guy really knows how to fix my problems, then I never want to risk losing his advice by crossing the line and dating him," says Deanna Sibley of Columbus, OH. "Instead, it's smarter to keep him as a friend to counsel me with other guys I may be interested in."

Keep her talking. If you're doing most of the yakking, you're probably either bragging — which never works to impress anyone — or you could be giving away all your secrets. "Revealing too much of yourself makes a guy less of a mystery, which makes me way less interested in him," says Shelby Bala from Detroit, MI. Instead, talk less and ask more. Even if she's throwing you a lot of questions, make sure to spin a question back at her to get her talking about herself again.

Never use the F-word. No, not that F-word! We mean "friend." Sure, most women appreciate a guy who can actually be friends with other women. Still, showing off that you have a lot of female friends can keep you in the pal zone permanently. "Some guys feel obligated to tack on the label ‘my friend' to every woman who comes up in conversation, just so I know they're available," says Joanne Addison from Hackettstown, NJ, "But if I see that he has more female friends than I do, it makes me think he'll probably be a better friend to me than a love interest." So, guys, mention a gal friend or two, but no more. Don't give her the vibe that you're looking to add to your posse of female pals and instead send the message that you are 100 percent there on a romantic mission!

Credit for this goes to Myatt.M.
''Myatt Murphy writes about relationships for Cosmopolitan, Glamour and Maxim, and is the author of the upcoming book, The Body You Want in the Time You Have. ''

I dont agree with everything this dude has to say but... It will help alot of you also depending on age of both persons. I will write my own shorter version of the lets just be friends thing soon.

Female Quotes and my come backs:

Tilz opinion of players:
‘’well players u twats who need to get the head sorted otu cos if the mess wiv ne one its cos they r twsietd they ahve no respct for them seleves or other they jst have to hurt ppl and one day i will happen to them and they wont like it’’

My Thoughts:
Hmm I would totally ignore that… I aint a woman hater or think a woman should be played but that girl don’t know what she is talking about. Also check the frustration of her with her bad spelling…

Sarah’s (Sex Tips lol):
‘’OK well When you go to touch a girl, make sure you gental but always go for the bum, and tits and the best thing going is having you tits sucked but remeber nibbling can be very nice too.’’

My Thoughts:
For me that is kind of obvious but a girl likes to be touched ruff too if you don’t give her everything you got no chance of getting her ‘’locked’’ into you. In the right way different methods of the ‘’LOCK’’ will be explained shortly.

Basically about being ruff if she isn’t getting her needs somewhere she will go somewhere else so you need to give her everything, and you will get it back also. But she might not cheat on you, but she like will crave it and as it ages if another male ELEVATED one comes along and snatches her she got a good chance of cheating on your sorry ass… Also yeah this is if you got a good female and not a SKANK.

Sarahs Approach:
‘’ a guy should treat a girl like a little princess, always put her first. NEVER PLAY A GIRL! If you like her say( we can't read minds) And be gental most important thing ever. Just show her you care and are who you say you are and you will go far!’’

My Thoughts:
A guy shouldn’t always be on the girl like oh I love you blah blah blah you can do that but you need to have the ‘’game’’ to do so. All will be explained one day.

Tonni: players
''players, well not too keen on them lol. if ur gana get involved with girls, keep to one at a time. or ul never find a 'nice girl'''

Tonni on tips?:
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not really sure about any other tips lol. part from remember its always little things mean more''

I am not even going to comment I think you males know...

The Approach: Females Point Of View

‘’When as guy approaches a girl he should feel, look and sound confident when he is talking, it makes the conversation more relaxed. when having a conversation with a girl you should do some work as well, don't leave her to ask all the questions, ask about her, but not too many questions otherwise it feels like you either trying too hard or want to know too much to soon! You need to remember to be sensitive as well as "manly" otherwise the idea will come across that you have no feeling or that you are gay and more of a mate. When kissing a guy should not always do what he wants to do but also take his lead from his lady!And remember if your guna play a girl DON’T GET CAUGHT! It will cause hell for you!’’

Written by Zoe 17

That’s a females opinion made especially for you males, aha although don’t get in to deep give you a little starter ill be getting stuff from other females and posting them up to…
PS: This is only one girls view… But it will be similar on a lot of girls.

Any holes a goal (not)

Player get yourself up off the ground, man you don’t want to f*ck last weeks meal. Damn, lets elevate you, what I mean by elevate:

Meaning you should make yourself a better player, no ones going to respect you properly if you go around f*cking everything you see.

Maybe sometimes you might be thinking yeah I could do with a quickie but wouldn’t it be better if you could get some nicer girl. All damn fine intelligent and stuff fast and making sure you don’t get no STI naaa meen!

Myself:
I only go for high quality ladies o yea never see myself walking about with some chav girl or some one not good enough to be with a famous person.

I will go over how to get the elevated lady later on but remember this, your friends be showing off they got a lady who looks like a skank and you got some nice elevated clean woman.

Welcome, yes well deciced to start my own blog because eh got things so say so why not. Firstly what this is about, about getting the males methods correct. Firstly I am seeing aloto wanna be players and pimps, but truthfully you dont know sh*t. I am going to run people down on style, music, news, girls, sex and alot more. Just so a player can get more elevated I will run down everything very soon for now bye so I can write some stuff...